Silvia Hartmann, EFT and NLP Practitioner and Trainer, declared: “At the core and center of all relationship problems lie strong and overwhelming emotions, such as fear, low self esteem, unpleasant emotions such as jealousy, feeling abandoned, feeling hurt, feeling unlovable, feeling trapped, feeling desperate, feeling unloved.”

We sympathize with the “battered woman,” who seems to get into one relationship after another with “abusive” men. But why does this happen? Couldn’t she see this coming? Why does she always get involved with someone, who enjoys getting drunk and beating her up?

What about Gerald? He is nice looking, talented, friendly, and (most importantly) gainfully employed, but just cannot seem to connect with Miss Right, no matter how hard he tries? Everyone in his office thinks he is a wonderful person, but they cannot understand why he is still single.

Sally says: “My God! My mother is so overbearing. She is constantly criticizing me for everything -- from my clothes, to my weight, to my latest (maybe last) boyfriend. What can I do? Does she really hate me, or is she jealous of me? I don’t know. She is driving me out of my mind, that’s for sure.”

Roger’s wife stirs up an argument and accuses him of chasing other women, when he only takes a free look at the ladies in the supermarket. This situation usually ends up in a shouting match, but Roger is afraid he will soon lose control and “pop her a good one.” “Why can’t she leave me alone? I didn’t do anything!”

Relationship horror stories, such as these, make life miserable for all concerned. Constant fighting and bickering at home can hardly be kept at home, and the emotional issues of miserable relationships will certainly affect careers.

EFT specialists are convinced that we now have the tools to repair damaged relationships and develop new, amiable relationships that benefit both parties. Whether you are seeking a new compatible friend or trying to improve matters with your current mate, EFT can help you think clearly, generate a new outlook on life, reduce physical pains and ailments resulting from those unhappy relationships, and eliminate conflicting emotions.

Silvia closes with this bit of wisdom: “In my opinion, EFT is the best thing that has happened to humanity for at least 2000 years. It puts emotional healing and response to situations back into a person’s OWN TWO HANDS.”